Shyness
When talking about shyness,
we all have a person who comes to our minds. This is due to the fact that
shyness is spreading all around the world. The question, then, is; are we born
shy? Is it something that is in our genes? Is it something that we acquire
through experience? Well, no matter the answer we should see this as a problem
that affects people’s lives; in fact some people can’t even get a good job
because of shyness. And furthermore, there are people whose marriages have gone
to the dump as a result of shyness.
The problem is that it is
kind of difficult to approach a shy person for he/she is always brushing you aside
like a professional dodge ball player. When the shy person who avoids others is
good looking, people use to make misattributions. They usually think that the
shy person behaves that way because he feels outstanding or condescending.
Shy people do not settle for
living in solitude, they want to gather others. Nevertheless, in order to best
this situation, the best idea would be to make them think that the others are
shy, too. If it works, they will feel more akin to the others. Then the burden
of loneliness will vanish once and for all.
Well, I’ve been writing
about possible solutions, however, the best solution is foreseeing the problem
in children when they are little kids. Let’s try not to put them in isolation.
Let them share and be what they want. If we do that, they will be so social
that they’ll be able to stomach all kinds of personae. In conclusion, do not
confuse shyness with personality. Some people are not shy; it’s just that they
prefer not to get acquainted to people they think are inferior.