Infidelity...Children...Marriage.

Learn that their partner was unfaithful, it is disappointing and ends up finishing the confidence he had for many years, but this may be worse when a child with this betrayal extramarital left. Most likely will ask: 'Why did this happen to me, I've been a husband (a) copy?', 'Why pay me that way all the unconditional love I gave you?', 'Why happen these things, after all this time of marriage? '. You may not have any answers, find no explanation and, most difficult, can do nothing to change that. Infidelity has already occurred, can not turn back time; be brave, confronts that time, not let that frighten and change what you are, those qualities and characteristics that make it unique. It is true that going through a crisis that brand is not full of grudges and sadness. It is necessary to live the process, grief, put in the balance the pros and cons of their relationship; if you chose to forgive, if you want to save your home, and continue to exceed this episode, their relationship may be transformed and henceforth stronger and more solid. To consider ... According to psychologist specializing in Couples Therapy Rosalba Urrutia, a couple faced with this situation should: - The man who has a child outside marriage must confess to your partner. - To carry out DNA testing to be sure that the child is his son. - Should assume a moral and economic responsibility to the child out of wedlock. - Seek professional help to overcome the process of betrayal. - Women must keep quiet, seek therapies to help you overcome that moment, but it should not become the cloth tears from her partner. - The wife should not try to become the mother of that child product of infidelity, either approach the child in order to have control of the situation. - Telling the illegitimate son with the truth, who knows the real situation. - After accepting the existence of the child, the parent should encourage, with moderation, a rapprochement between the brothers. - The parent should tell their children of the existence of illegitimate son. Before this time, you should analyze what stage the child is, if infant or adolescent; if there is a relationship between father-son attachment too. It should be performed support and professional advice to avoid psychological effects. - When children are adults, they are more cautious to accept this new brother, cousin interest so it will receive from inheritance, but should seek a rapprochement and reconciliation. He decided to forgive infidelity and move on, but obviously you have to work hard to overcome not only betrayal but also the arrival of the new child. Rosalba Urrutia and Luz Elena De la Rosa Puello, Couples Therapy specialists psychologists give some guidelines to overcome infidelity and achieve stronger as a partner: It must be repentance by the failed and if the other person is ready to continue, you must create commitments. -Exponer Expectations of each party, place orders or requests according to present her emotional needs and his. - Identify strengths, qualities and strengths as well as weaknesses or flaws that could negatively affect the perception of each. Analyze if there emotional distance or remoteness, lack of communication, monotony, sexual dissatisfaction and other things that they can identify. -Establish A trial period agreed by it while composing grief and acceptance, being aware that the relationship will go to another stage of greater maturity, less idealization and conditionally. - Accept the couple assume the economic and moral responsibility for the child. An illegitimate child has the same value as a legitimate child and should be treated equally. It's important that the couple has decided to give a new opportunity to establish what kind of relationship it will have with the child's mother. "You can not deny the right" Luz Elena De la Rosa Puello Psychologist Individual and Couples Therapy What to do when the result of partner infidelity extramarital son is? The illegitimate son triggers insecurity of married women. The emotional damage husband's infidelity can be expressed through depression and lead to a grieving process that includes anxiety, disgust, guilt, shame, fears and cognitive reformulation about the relationship. Despite this reality, the child out of wedlock can not be denied the right to their own identity, to know who their parent and recognition of affiliation. What limits set to the couple? The wife is aware that infidelity occurred unilateral breach of a covenant of exclusivity that existed between them, bringing on a third party with some aspects of relational dynamics are shared. To set the limits, you must implement an assertive and deep communication about the generalities of the problem and be emphatic as to what behaviors does not allow him hereinafter be explicit and decisive about the consequences of their actions will lead onwards. Can you overcome this episode of the relationship? How? Restructuring couple dynamics involves exposing the expectations of each party, place orders or requests by the emotional needs to present it and also his, to highlight complaints and inconformismos that were generated from the time, identify strengths, qualities and strengths as well as weaknesses or flaws that could negatively affect the perception of each, identify if there emotional distance or remoteness, lack of communication, monotony, sexual dissatisfaction and other aspects that can identify each other. From the consensus and the implementation of the new elements a trial period agreed by it can be established while composing grief and acceptance, being aware that the relationship will go to another stage of greater maturity, less idealization and conditionally . The voice of the expert Rosalba Urrutia psychologist specializing in Couples Therapy "Keep in mind that when the couple marries, makes a commitment of responsibility and loyalty. The man who is cheating makes a setback in his life, who has a lover and that relationship remains a child, it is a blunder, it is a double betrayal of your partner, "he argues. The precise expert that many of the cases that come to his office are that the husband has kept from his partner for many years the existence of that child, "when it states that the child actually is he must assume responsibility, all levels and assuming even legal implications. " Furthermore, he believes that "immediately become aware of the existence of the child, you must confess to your husband or wife; many prefer to hide her partner and lover begins to blackmail him permanently and end up taking advantage of the situation. " According to the specialist, this situation creates great disappointment, the reaction is unpredictable and should accompany this process with the help of a professional. Also explains that in his marital therapy always advised couples to fight for their home, "it should be understood that a marriage should not end at any time so there is a child outside marriage, there are aspects to consider before making that decision ".

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  People get upset when an unknown person come into the class, but what we really have to think is that the real problem is in our society. I say that because the problem is not about who goes into the class or not, is more than that, is to find out, why or how it happens, it has many answers. One of them could be that the person who is in charge of knowing who arrives into the classroom is stealing money to the goverment because that person is not doing her or his job, that means that that person just think about money.

It is incredible what happens here! People want money but they don't want to work.

Security at the university

The security at the university

The other day we had this particular case in which a vagrant has entered our class room asking for money, we all have a big concern that the students, professor and university staff are not protected from any people who may access the classrooms.

Any people who wants to enter the university area they might do it without being identify by the authority in the place, students should be in risk as well as the professor and other staff, protecting our life have become part of our own work and we should be careful with who we talk and who we give information that could turn into a tragedy because we might be putting ourselves in danger by doing this.

I think that authorities on charge of everyone safety inside the campus should do something about it and not just wait until something bad happens.

A Phantom appears in our class

Good evening, Yesterday, In our English class at 107 classroom a simple man appeared. He were dust, red-eyed and he couldn't articulate his words. He was asking about money. The excuse was that he had to took his bus to go to La Caleta. My intention isn't to be dramatic but I was freezed. It was the first time that I saw a person gotting into a classroom, a person who interrupted a class and asked for money with a stupid argument. I think uasd should be a safety place. As a Uads's student I really feel unsafe. The claims that we are demanding has to include a budget to put on safe or university. thanks for read.

Example of some gestures and body language

Body Language Examples People often use body language (kinesics) as a physical, nonverbal form of communication to convey some feeling or intention. Common body language examples include postures, gestures, facial expressions, and eye movements, which give away some clues to how you may really feel. Here are some body language meanings which can help you understand what other people are conveying. Body Language Examples and Their Meaning 1.Arms crossed in front of the chest This is one of the body language examples that indicate that one is being defensive. The body language meaning of crossed arms may also show disagreement with opinions and actions of other people with whom you are communicating. 2-Biting of nails Nail biting demonstrates nervousness, stress, or insecurity. Many people bite nails without realizing they have the habit. 3 Hand on cheek This body language example indicates that one is lost in thought, maybe considering something. When your hand is on your cheek and your brows are furrowed you may be in deep concentration. 4 Finger tapping or drumming This action demonstrates that one is growing tired or impatient while waiting. 5 Touching the nose Touching or rubbing the nose signifies disbelief, rejection, or lying about something. 6 Brisk rubbing of the hands This may show that the hands are cold, which may mean that one is excited about something, or waiting eagerly. 7 Placing finger tips together This is called "steepling," or placing fingertips together to demonstrate control or authority. This is one of the body language examples that bosses and other authority figures use to show that they are in control. 8 Open palms, facing upward This gesture is a sign of honesty, sincerity, submission, and innocence. This is how some people show submission and respect during church worship. 9 Head in hands The body language meaning of this gesture may be that of boredom, being upset, or being ashamed, so one does not want to show their face. 10 Locking of ankles Whether you are sitting or standing, when your ankles are locked, you are communicating apprehension or nervousness. 11 Stroking the chin or beard This communicates that one is in deep thought. This action is often done unintentionally when one is trying to come up with some decision. 12 Ear pulling Pulling an ear lobe can mean one is trying to make a decision, but remains indecisive about something. 13 Head nodding This gesture usually signifies agreement or bowing, a submissive gesture that shows one is going along with another person's opinions. 14 Lint picking Picking of imaginary lint is another one of the body language examples of displacement gestures, which one uses to show disapproval of the attitudes or opinions of other. This action makes one look away from the other person while doing some irrelevant action. 15 Catapult posture This seated version of the “Hands-on-Hip” male posture with the hands behind the head and elbows pointed out is used to intimidate or show a relaxed attitude, thus giving a false sense of security before an ambush is made. 16 Lowered head This indicates one is hiding something. When you lower your head while you are being complimented, you may be showing shyness, shame, or timidity. It may also convey that you are keeping distance from another person, showing disbelief, or thinking to yourself. 17 More body language examples Here are some more body language examples and their meanings: Standing straight, with shoulders back – this posture shows that one is feeling confident and it is often accompanied by walking with brisk strides. One-sided head tilt – tilting the head suggests that one is listening with interest in what others are saying. Looking down, away from the body – this may indicate guilt or shame. To validate this feeling, revert back to the discussion and see if the body language meaning is the same. Standing, hands on hips – can mean readiness or aggression Shifting of weight or foot movement – suggests that one is impatient, nervous, excited, scared, or even intimidated. Sitting, legs crossed, slight kicking of foot - can mean boredom Sitting, with legs apart – a relaxed posture Walking, hands in pocket, hunched shoulders – can mean dejection Eye rubbing – can mean doubt or disbelief Hands clasped behind back – can mean frustration, anger, or apprehension Pinching the nose bridge, eyes closed – shows negative evaluation Patting or fondling hair – shows insecurity or lack of self-confidence Quick tilting of head – shows interest Prolonged tilting of head – shows boredom

The stranger who came into the classroom!

Last night, while the professor was sharing an important information with us about grammar and some vocabulary, a strange person came into the classroom, interrupting and  causing astonishment and frightening some students who were expecting maybe some violent movement due to the way how he stopped the class & the way how he was dressed at that time in a place of study ( or at least that is what is supposed to be ).

For nobody was a secret that the stranger was carrying some sort of weapon in his hand, which some of us thought he will use in any time, nevertheless wasn't until the moment when the teacher decided to ask him what did he want, when the stranger talked telling that he was there asking for money due to he didn't have enough to pay the bus and go back to "La Caleta" which he said was his township.

After those words, most of the students showed a gesture of generosity and help, giving some coins of 5, 10 and 25 pesos. Then, the stranger decided to leave immediately he had collected the money from the teacher and some students & after that event the English class of last night was not the same.

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When  we say lies we feel uncomfortables oursselves. and not many people believe in them., some people prefer taking advantages of using lies to get what they want..Been honest is an open door of respect.

Be honest its not to be fool, is just do what is right. no matter what people think. We need help othes., as I want me to be helped.

Honesty refers to a facet of moral character. is attributes such as integrity. Honesty is the fist chacter in the book of Wisdom, and also the proverb of Benjamin Franklin ´´Honesty is the best policy´´ Been honest means not to lie,steal,cheat or decived in any way. Whuen we are honest, we build strenghs and we are blessed.

Honesty..

Honesty is a good human value which describes a person in a really good way or positives atributes such as integrity, truthfulness straightforwardness including actitude, is to be sincere and also transparent without any mask or lying in  life. But there is a quality that in those times has lost the value or the importance many people preferes to lie instead of being honest and act in a good way in the momment that tehy are going to get something in their personal life.

But also a culture influence in honesty there we have the example of our country if we don't lie sometimes we can not get things, positions like in a job or in our personal life, because is a costume if we don't do it we can not get what we want or the society thinks that we are fools, in my personal opinion I prefere to be someone honest because in my home that was the education that my parents gave to me.

The most watched in history? The first of three presidential debates will be held at Hofstra University in New York, and is projected to be one of the most watched American political history, surpassing the 80 million viewers who watched a debate between Ronald Reagan and Jimmy Carter in 1980. With this kind of audience and reverberations today have an event like social media, much is at stake for both candidates. It is possible that what happens in the debate to influence the vote of undecided or those who are not strongly committed to either of the two options, especially because both candidates have a high level of negative image among voters. The various polls show a close race in which Clinton Trump or take the lead every few days, both the popular vote and the electoral college. "In this case, I think the debates may change the dynamics of competition," said Sherry Bebitch Jeffe, a political analyst and professor at the University of Southern California (USC). "If Hillary can not project honesty, approaching voters, or if Trump messes and plays the fool, both can be harmed." However, the analyst said, "there's always another debate". In 2012, President Barack Obama decisively lost the first debate against Mitt Romney and then bounced back and won the election decisively. How and where to see the debate? Although the debate will be moderated by journalist Lester Holt of CBS News, it will be widely broadcast on television, internet and social media, including Facebook and Twitter Live. The meeting is at 6 pm (Pacific), 9 pm (EST) and will last 90 minutes at a time, without commercial interruptions, although it will be divided into 15-minute segments, presumably to play various topics (the moderator proposes and often , candidates have, talking about what they want). The debate can be seen in all networks English (ABC, CBS, NBC), public television or PBS, Fox, CSPAN, CNN, CNBC and Fox News Channel and in Spanish, with simultaneous translation and various platforms, including CNN in Spanish, Telemundo and Univision. ABC partnered with Facebook for transmission by Live Facebook and Twitter, thanks to an alliance of this social medium with Bloomberg Television. In addition, there will be "feeds" the debate on You Tube and several networks also broadcast in the Periscope and Snapchat. There is, then, how to be missed. Who has the upper hand in the match? Experts vary in their opinions but many believe that, as has been so far in the campaign, Hillary Clinton has more to lose in the confrontation, as it expects much more from her than Trump. "The bad news is that more is expected of Hillary that Trump" said Bebith Jeffe. "If he is able to walk and chew gum at the same time, they will declare the winner. She is perceived as the best prepared, the political experience. If your performance is virtually perfect, it is considered to have lost the debate. " Ralphael Sonenshein, director of the Pat Brown Institute of Political Studies, said it is impossible to predict who can do better or worse in this debate has never been a competitor like Donald Trump and less against a woman like Hillary Clinton. Besides, he adds, the voter foot see something different from the "pundits" of the political world. "The debates are not that we called experts say who won or lost," Sonenshein said. "They are for voters to examine the candidates, their proposals and their people nearest and facing manner. And often, they draw a different conclusion from what the media says. At times it appears that this is two different debates. " What should test the candidates? Presidential debates are often judged at various levels: topics that touch, which are not generally deepened much-the format is TV, the answers are 1 minute or two- sometimes takes a back seat and most important is the print receiving viewers personality of individuals on stage and how much confidence to produce them. Both Clinton and Trump have a public image that has a high level of negativity and debate is an opportunity and a risk, because both try to present a good face, but also that his opponent to lose control of the message or display in a way that harms. Sonenshein believes that Hillary should avoid lengthy responses, a teacher, both were injured in the first debate Obama 2012. "It should be firm, honest and short. Your model must be the way he conducted a few months ago during interrogation on Bhengazi before a congressional committee. He spent hours answering. And above all, you should never lose patience, "said the political scientist. Charles Dunn, retired professor and former officer of several Republican administrations, Hillary should avoid "their tendency to see others over his shoulder" and Trump should calm down a bit and not use his tactic of "attack dog". "Trump must demonstrate wood to be president and will not be swayed by their worst instincts," Dunn said. "She should be pleasing to those who listen and put aside their superiority complex, because it is talking to voters, not just Trump, and she tends to look at them over his shoulder." What topics are covered in the debate? The moderator has the prerogative to choose the issues, not previously disclosed, but it is not difficult to predict what will probably bring up, said Joseph Ura, associate professor of political science at A & M University in Texas professor. "I hope there are questions about the economy, racial tensions and police and recent protests about it," Ura said. 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Addictions.

In those times is so common that everybody has an smart phone and also access to internet. we already know that sometimes ineternet makes live easier when we want to look for some information, but we can not abuse a lot of it. Being connected every time, at every moment is not normal we can check messages or e-mails but not in excessive way, there is people that used to be in touch frequently, and know what's going on, so they can not control that bad habbit. That is the reason why a person become to be addicted of a social network and it could be a sickness or a serious problem that has to be treated by an specialist or a psychology.

A person who gets that addciction don't use to share with his/her family a lot or to go outside with fiends is a person that used to be alone because that person thinks that is more important to be connected than have a social life.

Matthew Youlden speaks nine languages fluently and understands more than a dozen more. We work in the same office in Berlin so I constantly hear him using his skills, switching from language to language like a chameleon changing colors. In fact, for the longest time I didn’t even know he was British.

When I told Matthew how I’ve been struggling to merely pick up a second language, he had the following advice for me. If you believe that you can never become bilingual, take note!

1. KNOW WHY YOU’RE DOING IT

This might sound obvious, but if you don’t have a good reason to learn a language, you are less likely to stay motivated over the long-run. Wanting to impress English-speakers with your French is not a very good reason; wanting to get to know a French person in his or her own language is another matter entirely. No matter your reason, once you’ve decided on a language, it’s crucial to commit:

“OK, I want to learn this and I’m therefore going to do as much as I can in this language, with this language and for this language.”

2. FIND A PARTNER

Matthew learned several languages together with his twin brother Michael (they tackled their first foreign language, Greek, when they were only eight years old!). Matthew and Michael, or the Super Polyglot Bros. as I’d like to now refer to them, gained their superpowers from good-ol’, healthy sibling rivalry:

“We were very motivated, and we still are. We push each other to really go for it. So if he realizes that I’m doing more than he is he’ll get a bit jealous and then try and outdo me (maybe because he’s my twin) – and the other way round.”

Even if you can’t get a sibling to join you on your language adventure, having any kind of partner will push both of you to always try just a little bit harder and stay with it:

“I think it’s a really great way of actually going about it. You have someone with whom you can speak, and that’s the idea behind learning a language.”

3. TALK TO YOURSELF

When you have no one else to speak to, there’s nothing wrong with talking to yourself:

“It might sound really weird, but actually speaking to yourself in a language is a great way to practice if you’re not able to use it all the time.”

This can keep new words and phrases fresh in your mind and build up your confidence for the next time you speak with someone.

4. KEEP IT RELEVANT

If you make conversation a goal from the beginning, you are less likely to get lost in textbooks. Talking to people will keep the learning process relevant to you:

“You’re learning a language to be able to use it. You’re not going to speak it to yourself. The creative side is really being able to put the language that you’re learning into a more useful, general, everyday setting – be that through writing songs, generally wanting to speak to people, or using it when you go abroad. You don’t necessarily have to go abroad; you can go to the Greek restaurant down the road and order in Greek.”

5. HAVE FUN WITH IT

Using your new language in any way is a creative act. The Super Polyglot Bros. practiced their Greek by writing and recording songs. Think of some fun ways to practice your new language: make a radio play with a friend, draw a comic strip, write a poem, or simply talk to whomever you can. If you can’t find a way to have fun with the new language, chances are you aren’t following step four.

6. ACT LIKE A CHILD

This is not to say you should throw a tantrum or get food in your hair when you go out to a restaurant, but try learning the way kids do. The idea that children are inherently better learners than adults is proving to be a myth. New research cannot find a direct linkbetween age and the ability to learn. The key to learning as quickly as a child may be to simply take on certain childlike attitudes: for instance, lack of self-consciousness, a desire to play in the language and willingness to make mistakes.

We learn by making mistakes. As kids, we are expected to make mistakes, but as adults mistakes become taboo. Think how an adult is more likely to say, “I can’t”, rather than, “I haven’t learned that yet” (I can’t swim, I can’t drive, I can’t speak Spanish). To be seen failing (or merely struggling) is a social taboo that doesn’t burden children. When it comes to learning a language, admitting that you don’t know everything (and being okay with that) is the key to growth and freedom. Let go of your grown-up inhibitions!

7. LEAVE YOUR COMFORT ZONE

Willingness to make mistakes means being ready to put yourself in potentially embarrassing situations. This can be scary, but it’s the only way to develop and improve. No matter how much you learn, you won’t ever speak a language without putting yourself out there: talk to strangers in the language, ask for directions, order food, try to tell a joke. The more often you do this, the bigger your comfort zone becomes and the more at ease you can be in new situations:

“At the beginning you’re going to encounter difficulties: maybe the pronunciation, maybe the grammar, the syntax, or you don’t really get the sayings. But I think the most important thing is to always develop this feel. Every native speaker has a feel for his or her own language, and that’s basically what makes a native-speaker – whether you can make the language your own.”

8. LISTEN

You must learn to listen before you can speak. Every language sounds strange the first time you hear it, but the more you expose yourself to it the more familiar it becomes, and the easier it is to speak it properly:

“We’re able to pronounce anything, it’s just we’re not used to doing it. For example the rolled r doesn’t exist in my form of English. When I was learning Spanish there were words with the hard r in them like perro and reunión. For me, the best way to go about mastering that is actually to hear it constantly, to listen to it and to kind of visualize or imagine how that is supposed to be pronounced, because for every sound there is a specific part of the mouth or throat that we use in order to achieve that sound.”

9. WATCH PEOPLE TALK

Different languages make different demands on your tongue, lips and throat. Pronunciation is just as much physical as it is mental:

“One way – it might sound a bit strange – is to really look at someone while they’re saying words that use that sound, and then to try to imitate that sound as much as possible. Believe me, it might be difficult at the beginning, but you will. It’s something that is actually quite easily done; you just need to practice it.”

If you can’t watch and imitate a native-speaker in person, watching foreign-language films and TV is a good substitute.

10. DIVE IN

So you’ve made the pledge. How to proceed? Is there a proper way to go about learning? Matthew recommends the 360° maximalist approach: no matter which learning tools you use, it’s crucial to practice your new language every single day:

“I tend to want to absorb as much as possible right from the start. So if I learn something I really, really go for it and try to use it throughout the day. As the week progresses I try to think in it, try to write in it, try to speak to myself even in that language. For me it’s about actually putting what you’re learning into practice – be that writing an email, speaking to yourself, listening to music, listening to the radio. Surrounding yourself, submerging yourself in the new language culture is extremely important.”

Remember, the best possible outcome of speaking a language is for people to speak back to you. Being able to have a simple conversation is a huge reward in itself. Reaching milestones like that early on will make it easier to stay motivated and keep practicing. And don’t worry, you won’t annoy people by speaking their language poorly. If you preface any interaction with, “I’m learning and I’d like to practice…” most people will be patient, encouraging and happy to oblige. Even though there are approximately a billion non-native English-speakers around the world, most of them would rather speak their own language if given a choice. Taking the initiative to step into someone else’s language world can also put them at ease and promote good feelings all around:

“Sure, you can travel abroad speaking your own language, but you’ll get so much more out of it being able to actually feel at ease in the place you are – being able to communicate, to understand, to interact in every situation you could possibly imagine.”

Honesty

Honesty:
The act, quality, or condition of being honest.
Honest:
Scrupulous with regard to telling the truth; not given to swindling, lying, or fraud.

Nowadays speaking about honesty here in Dominican Republic has not the same meaning that this word means. Most of the time when you are honest, the people from here can consider you us a "palomo" that means foolish. It doesn't means that there aren't honest people here, but it is something that politicians have created for speaking lie and they become rich for this.

We have beautiful people here in this country, but sometime bad things affect the good ones
In my opinion to be honest is a good behavior that every people need to have for doing this world better. If you are honest being honest it doesn't matter what the people think, and you will see the result of doing this.

Addiction

Addiction:

 A state that is characterized by compulsive drug use or compulsive engagement in rewarding behavior, despite negative consequence.

The state of being addicted; devotion; inclination.

Those are some of the meanings of addiction, for me addiction is when a person starts to do something everyday and he or she can not stop of doing that.

Most of the time addiction are bad behavior and it can destroy families, relations, and the way of being of a person. I think that some addictions could be good when they benefit you life in a good point,
when a person is in a bad addiction like gambling, drug, or sex the best way for trying to help him or her is supporting them in all that you can. 

Firs of all, What is Honesty? It is a perfect way for describing someone who usually say the truth. It means that if you're always honest you are a Truthful and sincere person.

When you are an honest guy everyone going to consider you as great person but what happen if you are not like that, I mean a dishonest one who always want to say lies maybe nobody going to be your friend.

How can we recognize a veneer?

-When you want to know if someone is lying about something try to pay attention about what they are saying.

-Try to look his or her face because some experts say a liar's face change when they are saying untruth things.

-Pay attention to what they are saying then ask to them again just to see if it was true.

It is always fun listening to someone's lie when you already know the truth!!

Lies sometimes cost!  $.$

Does not matter if you are a rich person or sexy as him.

Compulsive lair exist, some experts said ''Nobody knows when a person is a compulsive liar''  is a behavior of habitual or compulsive lying.Pathological lying or Mythomania. 

if you're going to lie to someone pays attention perhaps that person is your best liar!!!

Honesty

                                                               Honesty 

Honesty means being trustworthy, loyal, fair and sincere. It is a personal decision. The honest peoples don´t lie, steal, cheat or deceive in any way. Honesty is the best policy, it refers to a facet of moral character and cannotes positive and virtuous attributes. Such as integrity, truthfuiness and straightforwardness.

In my own opinión being honest is better than to have money. Finally I think that dishonest decisions of somes people cause negative effects and serious consequences to the others.

That is why it is important to be honest in such way that you can feel inner peace.

I know a few honest people, we need much more honesty to better our society in general, because if you cannot believe anybody it is a difficult situation for our living days. 

45 Ways to avoid the adverb " VERY "

There's a famous phrase in English witch says " We learn by making mistakes " & I do agree hundred percent with it. Thinking on it I've decided to publish this valuable and useful information

I've noticed in many students who are taking this class ( English Advance III ) that for some reason they don't want to use other words to give a better sense to their sentence and make it sounds more professional or they just don't know that exist many ways to avoid using the adverb "Very".

I hope this information help to all of us and give us motivation to keep improving our skills with the English Language. I also want to remember the commitment we have as students of improving and learning every day at least one new word to enrich our vocabulary so then we can teach better to our future students!.

Thank you for taking the time to read it.

Kender Diaz

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Here you get the link where I found the picture with the information, enjoy!!!

https://plus.google.com/115596917143527765027/posts/KWVmZQfiAHw

Maquinita's Addiction

La maquinita

Maquinita this is how they name a tipe of slot machines locate at some grocery store in the rural neighborhood here in Dominican Republic.

In this first lesson I learned how people grab a bad habits and become in addiction.

I don't have to cross the street to get to a grocery store and hit one of those machine coin.

Sometimes people go to buy something important for their family or themselves and they finished gambling the last coin they have in their pockets.

How do they play this game?

The first step you have to change your bill for coins of five pesos (5 DOP), the Maquinita had 13 numbers from 0 to 12, and 12 coins are what you get if you win, I mean 60 pesos including the currency you got.

I've investigated some information to publish it here on the blog, one of the information I've receive that people who own these business are very rich.

All these Maquinitas are distribute in the grocery store into the rural neighborhood around the Dominican Republic.

Our children and teenagers are the hardest affect and addict to this crap in a early age. They are getting involve thinking that they can predict the number in the following lap but slowly they are losing their money and they are falling into a deep and uncontrollable addition.

In my personal opinion I think the person who invented this game it was not thinking to lose money, I'd like you see them what kind of car they are driving.

Those slot machines are in places open to all our children they are the most affected with the gambeling addictions..

Maquinita... Slot machines

Slot machines... A machine that you try to win money from by putting coins into it and operating, often by pressing a button or pulling a handle.

DOP = Dominican Pesos (ISO currency code).

Crap... Something that is not worth anything, not useful, nonsense, or of bad quality.

Affect... To have an influence on someone or something, or to cause a change in someone or something.

Gambling... The activity of betting money, for example in a game or on a horse race.



wrote it by Pablo Cesar Vergal
CURCE-UASD BONAO

I remember my sister in the beach.Excuse me mary remin me pay my facture.

A brief introduction of myself

My name is Pablo César Vergal , I was born in Bonao Dominican Republic, I am a student of Modern Languages in ​​English at the Universidad Autónoma of Santo Domingo.

 My first day of class I met new friends, they were surprised because they didn't know me, where are you from? ask me one of them, I am from Maimon-Bonao, that was my answers.

 I work in Bavaro Punta Cana, I am a tour guide in an aquarium, my job is to provide information about the different animals that they have there, especially stingrays and nurse sharks, this is a brief introduction of myself, later I am going to write you more details of my job and all the advantage that I've got just because I can speak English.

 NORTH START 5 is the book that we will be studying this semester 2016-2, it is a good book "the teacher told us" Listening and Speaking skills that's our goals on this final level of English.

To Be Honest

Honesty is the main topic in this unit 2, I want to talk about this important word in our country. The level of honesty in DR is sadly low, the reason is the Dominican say that '' Be honest is the same that be foolish'' and this is a mistake. Be honest is a big honor, because being honest we can make a better world, be the people only thing in the money and other materials things. Other reason is that the poor people imitate the rich people, if see that the rich people and who make the rules don't respect it, gonna do the same, and it is the reason of that we are in the wrong way.  We must to change the mind and the that rules will be the first, teaching us about honesty, also the parents the first teacher talking and doing the correct. To be honest to change.

A really big problem

The addiction is real problem that is part of everyday life.  The first step is admit that the problem is real, however people prefer to live in the land of not worry. Internet is maybe the new addiction. Is awesome the internet, but you don't must live around there, when you are addict you forget your life and your relationship. I remember that I see a documental in HBO, about a case that happened in South Korea, 2 parents were in a court, because they spent all day playing at computer and them son die because they forgot to give the food. I love the internet and is an important tools but use to good thing and be careful.

Televisión addiction.

Television addiction.

Television addiction is a proposed addiction model associated with maladaptive or compulsive behavior associated with watching television programming. The most recent medical review on this model concluded that pathological television watching behavior may constitute a true behavioral addiction, but indicated that much more research on this topic is needed to demonstrate this. The compulsion can be extremely difficult to control in many cases. The television addiction model has parallels to other forms of behavioral addiction, such as addiction to drugs or gambling, which are also forms of compulsive behavior.

Comments.

As all us knows almost all addiction are dangerous for our health, even more when you become extremely compulsive and you do not accept the reality.

For example. In my case I could not do anything before watching a TV program called Timon and Pumba, even to do my homework from high school, so my parents advised me strongly but I didn’t understand. At the end of the year I had serious grades problems and also eyes problems for reading. 

Internet addiction

Internet addiction can cause depression, loneliness and anxiety.

This picture make me to remember  when l traveled to my city years ago , before the internet fever. In these time people spoke ,sharing and made a long relationships when took a bus, but now people look like a zombies and they are focused only in theirs phone, and all so they can't appreciate the real world less the super natural.

I image to Jesus coming back...!

i wish i were in the Beach.

A different and complicated wish.

It is so crazy the different ways and meanings we can use with the verb wish. Some of the wish statements can be confusing sometimes but i would describe some of them like a desire that you wish to turn back time to make it a reality... But unfortunely you just can't.

chocolate addiction

Identify the symptoms. Not all researchers in the field of psychology perceive chocolate addiction as a "true addiction",^[1]. However, some researchers believe that the release of endorphins brought about by consuming chocolate creates a physical dependency to obtain that mood high again and again, thereby suggesting it is possible to be addicted to chocolate.^[2] Any way you look at it, your addiction to chocolate is definitely real and very hard to resist if you have become accustomed to consuming it. If you have uncontrollable cravings for chocolate, these may be some of the signs:

• You feel "conditioned" to need it at certain times of the day (the post-lunch afternoon dip being one good example).
• You salivate more in the presence of chocolate, or at the thought of it.
• You feel negative or anxious without it, and feel better for having it.^[3]